OK here i am typing this at 5.59AM..
stuck in a situation where i HAVE to make a decision..
i'm walking down this hall way which at the end has two doors.. one to the right.. and the other to the left...
If i were asked couple of months back.. which way i would take IF there was two doors rather two paths ahead of me.. i would have said "i don't care.. it just a the same.. it's just a matter of CHOICE" left or right didn't mean much since it was a just another "choice"... you make the choice and learn to live by your decision....
but is it ALWAYS like that? can you ALWAYS make a choice and NOT worry about the consequences of it?
the answer is NO!! a BIG "NO"
because when it comes to the matters of the heart.. people YOU CARE about the MOST, you can not TAKE a CHANCE and MAKE a CHOICE without thinking.. for the economic theory "Opportunity Cost" shall have a BIG effect on that decision...
you have to give up one of your hearts desires in order to gain the other.. trust me "CHOICE" becomes your worst nightmare come true when it's about two things you LOVE and CARE the most "EQUALLY"
So how do we know which decision to make? how do we know which one is the CORRECT decision to make? IF it carries EQUAL amount of pain and sadness? could we be selfish, think "wise" and make the decision that gives you a BIG advantage in the FUTURE? that's the door way which SHOWS you less obstacles and a clear path to success.. or do you be selfish again, think "foolish" and select the door way that shows you a NOT so clear future, a path with lots or rough edges and obstacles.. which you will have a hell of a lot to PAY FOR IF you screw up BUT gives you happiness.. more than you can ever imagine.. and a little less success than the other path?
(then again less success is a relative term.. lets just say the path which shows a doubtful future but given the fact you work hard you could even achieve better success than the other path)..
think about it...........
the word "CHOICE" some times becomes your worst enemy doesn't it?
It is true the saying "life has two kinds of tragedies, one is not getting your hearts desires and the other is to get it" clearly when it comes to a matter of heart.. getting a hearts desire and not getting it, BOTH have BIG losses....
two greatest tragedies in the world.... and all because of the two words..
LOVE and CARE
stuck in a situation where i HAVE to make a decision..
i'm walking down this hall way which at the end has two doors.. one to the right.. and the other to the left...
If i were asked couple of months back.. which way i would take IF there was two doors rather two paths ahead of me.. i would have said "i don't care.. it just a the same.. it's just a matter of CHOICE" left or right didn't mean much since it was a just another "choice"... you make the choice and learn to live by your decision....
but is it ALWAYS like that? can you ALWAYS make a choice and NOT worry about the consequences of it?
the answer is NO!! a BIG "NO"
because when it comes to the matters of the heart.. people YOU CARE about the MOST, you can not TAKE a CHANCE and MAKE a CHOICE without thinking.. for the economic theory "Opportunity Cost" shall have a BIG effect on that decision...
you have to give up one of your hearts desires in order to gain the other.. trust me "CHOICE" becomes your worst nightmare come true when it's about two things you LOVE and CARE the most "EQUALLY"
So how do we know which decision to make? how do we know which one is the CORRECT decision to make? IF it carries EQUAL amount of pain and sadness? could we be selfish, think "wise" and make the decision that gives you a BIG advantage in the FUTURE? that's the door way which SHOWS you less obstacles and a clear path to success.. or do you be selfish again, think "foolish" and select the door way that shows you a NOT so clear future, a path with lots or rough edges and obstacles.. which you will have a hell of a lot to PAY FOR IF you screw up BUT gives you happiness.. more than you can ever imagine.. and a little less success than the other path?
(then again less success is a relative term.. lets just say the path which shows a doubtful future but given the fact you work hard you could even achieve better success than the other path)..
think about it...........
the word "CHOICE" some times becomes your worst enemy doesn't it?
It is true the saying "life has two kinds of tragedies, one is not getting your hearts desires and the other is to get it" clearly when it comes to a matter of heart.. getting a hearts desire and not getting it, BOTH have BIG losses....
two greatest tragedies in the world.... and all because of the two words..
LOVE and CARE
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